raeg about lurve

I'm going to rant about love because rewriting A River Sutra essay made me want to kill myself with all the BSing.

Ok, Love isn't like some romantic comedy, dammit. You do not look at someone and automatically decide you love them. It takes TIME to work out a relationship. It takes time to become friends, to become something more. And after that, your not even sure you can go farther. If you really fall in love, it's not just by looking and deciding it. It does not take a fucking week. It takes REAL TIME to do so. I know they always portray those whirlwind romances and shit. Where she falls in love with just one trip together by happy coincidence.

So romantic. [/sarcasm]. It takes alot of time to make a relationship work, and sometimes even that doesn't work. And being in love and having fallen once does not guarantee happiness. Because fuck, I know someone like that, and she's still probably fucking bitter. You know what it takes.

BACKBONE. It takes someone saying "enough is enough" and getting the fuck out of there, getting on with your life. It takes someone saying "I won't give you the satisfactory of taking all the happiness I'll have for the rest of my life. Goodbye". Sometimes you just have to do it, leave. Cause you know it's going nowhere. Not because you love another boy or some shit like that. Because you KNOW. No amount of damn work will fix it.

You know what would be a great date? Just sitting at home, watching a movie with the person you love while chatting. Baking cookies. Playing Video games. Having a bowling battle. Lots of damn average things.

Blah, I hate how some people betray love. I may have never felt it, but I know when you've got it wrong. Perhaps it's up to interpretation or whatever, but when you've got it wrong, I mean FUCKING wrong.